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The great thing about sex and the city is that they lasted long enough and were diverse enough in their plotlines that most dating situations could be related to a particular episode. How do I feel right now with this whole Dave situation? Watch "Hop, Skip and  a Week" from Season 6 where after a week apart, Carrie and Berger end up with him leaving her a post it as a means of break up. How shitty is that? It's even worse that this is where I'm at...

Well, it hasn't been a week yet, but I don't think I'm even getting a post it, much less a text message or a call back. And now I'm at the level where I'm just annoyed and getting more angry about the whole situation. I know I'm not perfect, but I'm pretty cool in my own way and I don't deserve to be let down like this. It's not like we went out on two bad dates and I deserve the fade away. He made me meet his friends and made me dinner every week and made ME wait to have sex. He's the one who said he was looking for a relationship and that I was just who he was looking for. He's the one talking about going to all these places together and how we're going to deal with him being on vacation when I'm at work, blah blah blah. I totally reciprocated these feelings and was so much nicer to him than normal because he's a little more sensitive than other guys I've dated. Oh and I liked him a lot.

But I've read "He's Just Not that Into You" and yeah, if he hasn't called me in a week, he's not that into me. I get it. Obviously, actions speak louder than words and there haven't even been words lately.

So yeah, I've been here. I've done this. But I didn't think that all the positive signs with Dave would lead to this. To an ending with nothing-no justification, no explanation, no closure. I'm a rip the band aid off all at once girl. Tell me what the deal is, let me react, let me heal and let me move on. Don't make me wait and wonder and worry. I deserve so much more than that.